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January 27, 2013

you force people into book club




As a birthday present to me, my friends agreed to read a book of my choice and hunker down to book club in the foreseeable future.

The book I inevitably chose was Jane Austen’s Northanger Abbey, mainly because I had just read it for class and realized how amazing it was and partly because a sneaky, hidden, side of me wanted to make Austenites out of my friends too.  I figured that using one of the smallest and more palatable Austen’s would do the trick.

Of course, it was sincerely flattering to see people trying.  If I’m honest, after a few weeks went by, I truly didn’t see anyone reading it or being as excited as I was about it, so I posed the issue to Judy, who assured me in the simple explanation of “what do you expect?  It’s us.”

 That was hardly comforting.  I mean, by “us” I went down the line of my friends, sure some of us were still trying to finish up college, and sure one of us was pregnant, and the other was a fresh faced graduate, but why pass up Jane Austen?  Surely there was time for Jane Austen.  I mean, I figured at the beginning, it might be hard, but once you read the first paragraph—a blatant satire of Gothic novel heroines that left me in stitches—then they too would feel the enveloping warmth of Jane’s trusty pen and hanker for more.  Right?

I was starting to feel like no one really cared actually.  To help everyone out, I set the date for December 16th –because nerd that I am, I have Jane’s birthday marked in my calendar—and no one really wrote to commit to a date.  In a fit of pique, I remember writing how I lost all hope about this endeavor.

And of course, I wasn’t using a real keyboard but one of those new fangled touch screens, so my message came out saying I lost all hipe!  Autocorrect fixed this too to hype, so my message came off as dead publicity rather than the deprivation of expectation.

Inevitably, I chose to go through the motions of preparing for the day.  I made egg salad, I set out tea, I reread passages of the book, but I did have a lingering feeling of doubt if people would’ve read it.

My sisters didn’t read it beforehand actually.  Pamela promised me that she could read things really quick and would get it done in a day, and Samantha already read it tons of times before so she didn’t want to reread it.  Granted, she didn’t technically read it for this occasion but still.

So day of, everything went well.  I could tell people were nervous but willing and wanting to show that they actually read it.  I tried to ease tension by putting handy questions into a hat, so we could all take turns to reading one and discussing.  This idea was shot down by nerves and I ended up reading all of them, even the bum ones I put in there to ease us into it like “describe Catherine’s character.”  That one was meant with jeers actually.

But my whole idea started to turn against me.  I started to really squirm having my friends look at me and to guide the discussion.  I had these ideas of grandeur, sort like us as a literary salon with in France during the 1920s or something.  You know, we’d share ideas and laugh and gasp and I’d have to call to order to prevent a serious fight from breaking out over whether Henry was a suitable match for Catherine.  Instead, we were more civilized with our tea tray out.  We took turns to reply with thoughtful responses.  It just started to turn against me because of how self-conscious I started to feel just reading out my questions, mainly because I didn’t want to.

You know that feeling when you hear your voice on a recorder and you realize that you sound like that? Sort of like that, like, I wrote that question?  What was I thinking over that wording?

I always hated reading in class.  In my eighth grade Georgia History course, during popcorn, I remembering skipping words I thought unnecessary, like articles and adjectives, just to get my turn done with that more quickly.  It actually made the process a little longer, because my teacher made me go back whole paragraphs and would read with me a little more carefully.  I’m sure in her head she felt that she was helping, probably thinking I was illiterate, but she really just brought attention to it.  I mean, what eighth grader would want to sit through a lecture on Oglethorpe twice as long? 

Needless to say, I was never chosen for popcorn in that class again.  This was a pity because besides the whole skipping words while reading, I developed a really great tactic for it.  In the middle of sentences, words, and even after the first word of a paragraph I’d call on a classmate just to see who was paying attention.  Unsurprisingly, this made me unpopular in my eighth grade American literature class, so I was skipped in popcorn during that class too.  It was just a coping mechanism to deal with having to read aloud though.  I was making reading fun for them!

I guess I felt all of that retribution in what should’ve been a really fun moment for me then, because as I was asking a question over the Thorpes, I felt myself start to fade off on the question.  I looked up expectantly and everyone kindly went along with it, but I was that kid who was popcorned without notice.  I was caught.

I ended it immediately, allowing discussion to dwindle into private conversations, and when I they tried to bring it back, I scrunched my face up and assured everyone that it was fine, I was done.  What?  Yes, of course I’m done. Let’s eat chocolates and gossip.  And there was a hardly hidden exhale as we all poured more tea and started to really relax.  It was more after that.

It wasn’t the end of it though.  Judy actually couldn’t make it that day, so she promised to meet me later on when we were both free to do book club then.  By this Judy also meant when she started school again, she’ll be able to check out the book and read it in time.  She did.  She checked it out, but it was only when I asked her how she was going through it and if she liked the part where Helen saved that raccoon that I knew.

“Aha!” I said triumphantly, cackling and pointing with a blatantly rude finger.  “There is no Helen!  Or raccoons!”

“Yeah, I knew that, of course,” she played off.  “Her name’s something really plain though right?  Morrison?  Moore?”

“Moreland?”

“I was just testing you,” she said quickly, before she told me she had a week with the book, so she’d have time to read it then.

Of course, when I called a week later to ask how she liked it, she panicked, cursed, then tried to retract it and said she would get right on it.  We made plans to meet for dinner later on to talk it over.

I didn’t think too much of it because Judy’s pretty brilliant.  Boys, proper etiquette aside, she’s a regular Sheldon Cooper.  She’s pragmatic to the point of annoying but she’s well read, boasting of the Russians being her favorite writers, and having once wanting to be an epidemiologist.  So I figured it would be a pretty good discussion, one where I wouldn’t feel self-conscious either.

Only, once Judy sat down in front of me, I hardly had time to bring my soup to my lips when she demanded that I quiz her.  Was that necessary?

Yes.  She read the book in four hours, so she wanted to assure me that she had read it before she forgot it all.  Judy has terrible memory, but I chock this up to her general manic mindset.

So I did some small questions.  Who did she end up with at the end?

Her eyes widened with panic as she thought.  “That guy with the brown hair!” she said suddenly.

My lips twisted with skepticism.  “I don’t think it says that he has brown hair.”

She sagged.  “Really?  I must’ve just thought it.  Well, give me another.”

I proceeded to ask others. 

“Where did they meet?”

“In a hallway!”  At my face.  “At a ball after she met Isabella.”  At my laughter.  “Or maybe it was before?”

Here's a variation on their meeting as done by J.J. Feild

“What word did Henry quiz Catherine on for using too much?”

Twisting her mouth in thought.  “I’m sensing an a-word.  Amethyst?  Absinthe?  I’m going to go with Absinthe.”

“It was nice.”

“What?”

“The word.  It was nice.”

She tiled her head in confusion.  “Are you sure?  Did we read the same book?”  I found the passage in mine to show her and she nodded.  “I may or may not have skipped that in my hurry to finish reading.”

I had to laugh at that, and Judy explained how in her hurry to read, she started to skim and skip some passages, explaining her failure at the quiz she implemented.  I had to explain how book club’s don’t usually quiz someone on whether they read it or not, to which she seemed extremely surprised.

“Yeah, really,” I replied.  “It’s usually, did you like it?  So did you?”

That might have been unfair actually, because as much as I talk about Jane Austen to Judy, I forget that she actually hates her.  She really does.  She thinks of Jane as a lovey-dovey romantic really.

It’s just weird because I take it so personally when I hear it.

And it was just sad, because I never really said anything to stand up Jane as Judy snuck in these comments.  I just went along with Judy’s tirade on how the women in these novels are silly and naïve, which isn’t true at all as far as Austen’s characters go.  I laughed and said nothing when Judy talked about how Jane Austen was a hipster in making these points about her society—by all of this I think Judy meant Jane’s satire.

“Just a hipster!” Judy proclaimed to the restaurant.

And I sat there being mute, not saying a word.  I mean, I tried.  Every once and while I would try to interject, but say something like Mr. Darcy and Judy will scoff.

So I ended the book club quickly, dissolving into eating and gossip.  Isn’t that just always the way?